hmm funny how i end up only thinking bout blogging when i get ephiphany's or get particularly emo.. guess then its been good that i haven been on a while.. or is it heh?
anyways my latest revelation came as a result on hearing two of my dear friends have decided to go their seperate ways after two years of being together. This couple is one of those that i really look up to and well to hear that this was happening kinda came as a surprise to me and im still kinda reeling from it. earlier today i had lunch with a friend and we were talking bout how the weird trend is that somehow couples that seem to be with each other for quite a while seem to be seperating after being together for quite some time..ive actually kinda wondered why this was so.
Came to the conclusion that well it depends on the individuals . for couples that remain together for ages, both sides hve to be at a level of maturity that is constant and doesnt fluctuate much in good times or not. not to say that its wrong for younger couples to get together , its just that the trend seems to be if either party tends to fluctuate emotionally or mentally or in whatever shape or form then well something is unbalanced.
this is excluding the fact that while some may be mature for their years, there is still that possibility of fluctuating somewhat and that is something that i guess years will only solidify. This doesn't necessarily mean that i'm ruling out the possibility of going out with someone younger than me.. its just well something that has to be thought through carefully. if and when that ever happens haha
other aspects of life.. kinda busy as so oh well boring stuff basically.